Tuesday, October 4, 2011

The revolution will be led by a 12 year old girl

In 1998, to supplement my sporadic film production work, I picked up a few gigs as a substitute teacher at a private school. I had no idea how mesmerized I would be by the honesty and moxie of the girls in middle school. I had heard that girls at that age were horrible, but I was smitten. It seemed clear to me that they sat at the nexus of change for our society; that within their emerging womanhood they held the real solution to all of our problems. There was a light unfiltered, and a story unfolding, that felt like a glimpse into possibility. Perhaps 'horrible' was the dark side of possibility unexpressed, muted, ignored.

Five years later, as a part of my graduate studies, I wrote:

I believe that a girl’s experience provides a mirror on our culture’s desires and downfalls ... In Action Learning: A Holographic Metaphor for Guiding Social Change it states, “A hologram is a photograph, taken with a lens-less camera, where the whole is represented in all the parts. If the hologram is broken, any piece of it can be used to reconstruct the entire image. Everything is in everything else; just as if we are able to throw a pebble into a pond and see the whole pond and all the waves, ripples, and drops of water generated by the splash in each and every one of the drops of water thus produced..." And indeed, what might we learn if we used the two entities, the larger cultural self and the individual self of the girl, to reflect back to each other the present we are fulfilling and the future we are attempting to create. I want to explore the current literature and research available about the development of girls because I think we can illuminate a broader perspective in which to view current culture by seeing girls as a holographic metaphor. By establishing a foundation for healthier women we would in turn be creating a healthier society, and vice versa. 

I spent my time in graduate school focusing this belief by mentoring middle school girls, starting a nonprofit to support high school girls, and reading and writing about how girls are affected by government decisions and media blitz and how they can create change for society.

As I transitioned into my role as a grantmaker I realized the power philanthropy held in this conversation. I witnessed how philanthropy targeted to the needs of women could unlock many of the social problems we faced in our community. The nasty problems, the ones without an easy solution, the ones that are so inextricably linked to everything else that it seems like untangling a rats nest of necklaces. Hunger, homelessness, child abuse … all of these things had a similar leverage point. Get to the young woman, give her an education, a sense of self worth, the opportunity to make choices about childbearing and partnering, a chance to give back to her community, and you see a ripple of change take hold in her family tree. The facts are clear and the studies continue to support this belief. The exciting bit here is that there are now numerous opportunities for philanthropists of all abilities to get involved and make an investment in the revolution.

I am proud to support The Girl Effect. Ridiculous to think it could be this easy, and yet, the message resonates so deeply in my bones as a known truth it feels like something rustling in the wind from long ago.

Watch the video. Consider making a donation. Join the revolution.




Oh, and if after watching that video you're inspired to write your own response to the girl effect, you can do so for the rest of this week and be included in the 2011 Girl Effect Blogging Campaign (where you'll get linked in with all the other bloggers writing about it this week) Be a part of the movement!

3 comments:

  1. Wow. I've read a bunch of great Girl Effect posts but this is one of my absolute favorites! I love your perspective and energy. Thank you so much!

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  2. you made my day Emma, thank you! i haven't promoted my writing here much so any little bit of confidence means the world. thank you!

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  3. Kristen,

    I am so glad to see you blogging about the Girl Effect. You already know the story about how critical it is to help the young girls in this world rise about poverty and abuse. Did you know that there are young girls and women all over the world who are unable to care for themselves during their periods? They have to resort to things like newspaper, leaves, ashes, or old mattress stuffing or they just stay isolated during those days EVERY month! How long could you keep up in school if you missed one week out of every month? Right, many drop out never finishing the education that could help them better their situation. And yes, using these things to try and take care of themselves often causes illness and infection that left untreated become very serious.

    I work with a special organization called Days for Girls International (www.daysforgirls.org). We provide feminine hygiene kits to non-profit organizations for distribution to schools, orphanages, and villages in developing countries. Each kit contains two moisture proof shields, 10 absorbent liners, a pair of panties, a washcloth and soap, two ziplock baggies, and a cloth bag to hold it all. Requests for kits come in frequently and we have a great team of volunteer sewists who work diligently to meet the needs. AND, we are always in need of more help! We have a great team. Please take a minute to catch them in action at www.Facebook.com/DaysforGirls.

    Oh, and this November, Days for Girls International is taking a team of volunteers to Africa to meet with over 40 local women leaders to teach them how to make the kit components on treadle sewing machines they have been provided. These women will go back to their villages and teach other young girls and women the skills needed to make their own kits and start small businesses of their own.

    This is an amazing work. As you have already stated, to help make it possible for young women to finish their schooling and to the support needed to start their own small businesses will have a chain reaction impact on the world. And participation can be as simple or involved as can be afforded. You can sew a few kit items on your own or with friends, send in a few dollars to sponsor a sewist, or organize and lead a local chapter. The sewing is simple. There are complete patterns and instructions on the website as well as instructional videos. And there is even a guide for organizing and holding a Days for Girls International sewing event in your area. And if that isn’t your cup of tea, how about organizing and running a fund raising event. It takes so little of the resources we have to make a big difference in the life of a girl in need.

    Cindy Murdock
    Days for Girls International Ambassador
    Northern New Mexico

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